Reach out to a friend or colleague.
When the going gets tough, which it will at some point, reach out to friends. Don’t stew in the anxious thoughts and bad memories. Go slow, take your time. Life is not a race to be won and you will not lose out by slowing down. Just try it. That break for a phone call could be the solution.
Human beings have a fabulous ability to understand and be compassionate with each other. If the people around you are not doing that then move on and find some new friends and colleagues. Remember to be kind and forgive them when you do move on.
Are you stuck and feel you can’t move on at the moment? Then acknowledge this to yourself and write down the reasons why. Then make a plan of one thing a day you can do to ease the situation while you work out how to let go of the life that does not nourish your soul. Tell at least one trustworthy friend or colleague how you feel. Visit your doctor and ask for help. Finally, close your eyes and ask your guardian angel, the Higher Power (insert your preferred name here) for the life you want. You will be amazed how quickly things can change when you trust the profound inner resources available to every human being.
Frances Lockstone is an author and coach. She lives and works in Wales, UK and loves to share her years of experience of teaching Innerbody Wisdom. To read her book on Innerbody Wisdom just click on the link below –